Why Other People's Opinions Should Not Run Your Life

Choosing a different path often invites opinions. Some are well intentioned, others are

projections rooted in fear or misunderstanding. While feedback can be useful, living

according to others expectations often leads to regret.

No one else lives with the long term consequences of your choices. They do not carry

your values, vision, or inner calling.

Learning to filter opinions without absorbing them is a vital skill for anyone building something new.

Confidence grows when you make decisions aligned with your values, even when they

are misunderstood. Over time, clarity replaces the need for approval, and self trust

strengthens.

You do not need universal agreement to move forward. You need alignment with

yourself.

If external voices are holding you back, it may be time to strengthen your own.

If you would like guidance on this journey, email me at kim.motv8ncoach@gmail.com

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