The pressures can come from many places and in many forms.
You might be holding gatherings at your house for the festive seasons.
It might ignite sadness around lost ones, friends or families that are estranged. When you have some downtime have a think on how you could make that sadness a little lighter.
Maybe you are in a different country to your family, think about how you can make that easier on yourself, maybe by contact, maybe by volunteering and becoming involved with local groups that help out those on their own around this festive time.
You might feel a need to impress others with festivities or gifts, which might, in turn, put a financial strain on you.
Over 15 years of working with people I find that these next coming months are the hardest months for many and many people end up seeking help. For some, it can signify the end of a hard year, or another year lost to something.
So why put the pressure on ourselves?
Preparation is always a great tool, be prepared early for your own expectations of yourself.
What is it you need to do now?
How you can plan and make whatever your task list consists of easier?
Is there anyone that could give you a hand?
Take financial stock of your own situation and set financial limits on yourself. It is very easy to get caught up in festive season madness at the malls. Make a list of what you are needing to buy, what it is that you can afford. No one wants to be paying the festive season of for months going into a new year.
If you are hosting festivities at your house, plan early, be realistic and ask for help if needed. There is no point being the frazzled host.
Forget what the Jones are doing for the festive season, that is their business, trying to keep up or impress others will usually end up costing you financially and emotionally.
Think of your values when making festive arrangements, what is it that would make your soul feel happy? What is it you need to do to make you feel that the festive season has enriched you?
So, start planning, be realistic and remember to enjoy the simple things in life.
Kim McNamara Life Coach Success Coach
Motivation to Succeed Coach
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