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Burnt out mum with a dream

 It is tricky being a mum and keeping up with everything.


Our kids ages are spread out from 12 years to 26 years, and we are grandparents too now. 
From time to time we also foster children.

I remember really having a loss of identity, 

As soon as you become a mum, life as you know it is gone.

Washing, dishes, feeding the tribe, house work, school drop off, school homework and 
then full cycle of doing it all again.

One of the things I have always loved is to learn new things, I can remember that baby 
brain feeling, and then after that the feeling of just wanting to do adult stuff again, talk to 
adults and for me I wanted to learn more things and make money.

I started my personal development years ago, I always liked the idea of learning about 
myself and about others.

I then decided against what seemed like all odds to start a business that worked around 
my children, I didn't want to lose time with them, I wanted both, to work on something 
I was passionate about and show up for all the kids events and be the mum who dropped 
the kids to school and picked them up.

I worked hard while the kids were at school and then relaxed when they got home. It was 
a win win.

I have always been on the look out on how to simplify this even more, working less hours 
for more return and being able to do my own thing during the day like the bush walks I love 
to do

You know the other thing I struggled with, 

was finding like minded people, people who want to live in a high vibe state and not be 
dragged down. 

I remember going on trainings and I loved it and then when I left the training room I felt 
like I had left the tribe.

I wanted that feeling of those high vibe people around me more,
you know those people,

who inspire, who hold you accountable on your dreams, who uplift you and believe in you 
more than you do at times.

I found that tribe, I love them, and with that came the opportunity to be part of a fantastic 
online community building an authentically you on line business.

There is so much uncertainty in the world and I love that I have different ways of having 
streams of income.

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