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Making negatives into positives

 So right now the world is looking a bit sad, a bit scary and it has rocked us.


So how do we do the fluffy thing and find something positive about it all?

Why should we even bother looking for anything positive?

Well there are many reasons.

In every situation whether we want to believe it or not, there are positives.

Maybe things have been hard for us for so long that we can't even see the 
positives.

But they are there.

Have you ever bought a new car and then looked around and noticed how 
many of them are on the road?

Have you ever bought a new cell phone and then when you look around lots 
of people have that same phone?

What we choose to look for will be what we find.

Imagine looking for the positives, where ever the negative is, flip it, what is the 
positive to that?

Try it, what have you to lose?

Positive thinking makes us stand proud, our posture is better, our self esteem is 
better, our outlook on life is better, we want to try things, we find pleasure in small 
things, we notice what a wonderful world we live in and we become grateful for what 
we have, whatever that might be.

So I challenge you today, to look out for some positives around the situation we all 
find ourselves in at this time.




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