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"WOW FACTOR" Life Success Coach

 Today I am going to talk about the "WOW" factor that some people naturally have. When you meet someone with a "WOW" factor, they seem happy, content, and have their lives together. Often, we walk around with many stresses on our shoulders. When we do, it shows on our face, our posture and in our voices. People who have the "WOW" factor are usually full of self-esteem, confident and seem very happy. They have the ability to deal with things that life deals to them and keep it in perspective. 

When we stress about things, we use energy. You only have so much energy when you wake up in the morning. If you don't have the ability to handle your stress, it will show in your body and in the way you approach and talk to people.

Stress management is such an important factor. There are lots of 'fix it' methods out there, but without delving deeper into why you allow things to mount up, you will probably never get a handle on managing stress. The person with the "WOW" factor has a balance. They have just as much stress as everyone else, they just know how to handle it. When we are stressed, for whatever reason, we can lose our zest for life and things become very boring. The rut sets in, and life can be come miserable. 

The people with the "WOW" factor are balanced, they are happy with life, they are happy with their successes, they are content and let small things go by. If you only have so much energy in a day, and you don't use it on negative things, of course, when you meet someone, you too will be beaming with life. We all possess the "WOW" factor. It is just a matter of doing some personal work on ourselves, making some changes, making good choices and dropping stress levels.

I challenge you this week to be kind to yourself, ditch some of the stress, keep things in perspective, and be grateful for what we have.



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